tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post7838765108392361498..comments2022-11-10T09:02:05.089+08:00Comments on Aileen's Cup of Coffee: Intolerable Behavior in the Work PlaceAileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10039211474070790445noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-34140630665472326362012-11-07T00:35:34.638+08:002012-11-07T00:35:34.638+08:00Hope he changes. We have the right to be angry, bu...Hope he changes. We have the right to be angry, but that doesn't EVER give us the right to be rude or cruel.<br /><br />I also pity his family, not only because he lost his job but also because they might be experiencing stress and emotional abuse from his anger mgt issuesAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14812286705027210539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-61522070388022656042012-11-07T00:33:03.243+08:002012-11-07T00:33:03.243+08:00This reminded me of the time I was reviewing the w...This reminded me of the time I was reviewing the work of my teammate. I've been working almost 10 years and I'm confident that I know how to communicate and address my team's shortcomings (I know this because I always get good feedback on this area of my PA), anyway, my teammate took it to heart. I know she just graduated but she needs to control her emotions at work. She didn't talk to me for 3 days (imagine that, I'm her boss for cryin' out loud).<br /><br />It's not only anger that we need to control, we also need to control ourselves when we get upset.<br /><br />After that, she talked to me and apologized saying she's not used to failing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14812286705027210539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-35430013535139561082012-10-15T08:33:09.570+08:002012-10-15T08:33:09.570+08:00Sis, I didn't know you're fluent in French...Sis, I didn't know you're fluent in French lol! It's sad that the very people you are trying to help are the ones who would one day bite off your hand. That's part of life and sometimes you got to deal with it the best way you can. Thanks sis! All is good. :-)Aileenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10039211474070790445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-50375607392386304462012-10-13T10:46:24.099+08:002012-10-13T10:46:24.099+08:00Oo sis,basta everytime lalabas ka,as much as possi...Oo sis,basta everytime lalabas ka,as much as possible dpat may kasama ka h, take care sis!mtrguanlaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00023133400628530250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-58032481038011576892012-10-11T18:37:04.054+08:002012-10-11T18:37:04.054+08:00Imbecile, that's what he is. Reminds me of my ...Imbecile, that's what he is. Reminds me of my work abroad. A lot more of that kind over where the 'grass is greener'. I'm a lil surprised to know that some of my kababayans that I always defend from others' scrutiny can actually be @#$. Pardon my French!<br />I hope he realizes that he was wrong and shouldn't do the same for the sake of his own family. <br />As for you Aileen, I hope everything's alright with you. So cheer up!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-46220294733072602172012-10-06T10:06:59.111+08:002012-10-06T10:06:59.111+08:00Sis, am fine. As they say, business as usual. I&...Sis, am fine. As they say, business as usual. I'm not feeling guilty naman sis. I pity the guy's family. But it's his choice.Aileenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10039211474070790445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-51361831970519052162012-10-06T10:04:06.320+08:002012-10-06T10:04:06.320+08:00Sis, for the first few days, tuwing nasa labas na ...Sis, for the first few days, tuwing nasa labas na ko ng office, I am looking everywhere and specially behind me hehehe...You never know what people could do.Aileenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10039211474070790445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-71042601050605346902012-10-05T20:08:07.926+08:002012-10-05T20:08:07.926+08:00Hay, naku, some people are really that way...I am ...Hay, naku, some people are really that way...I am also having some probs with a nega officemate. she spreads really bad vibes sometimes I hate going to work. Haist (dito pa nag-rant haha).<br /><br />Aileen, how are you na?Don't feel guilty. That man deserved it and thumbs up to you for being so cool and collected. Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18231882473737545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-53999113544017391762012-10-01T21:48:31.210+08:002012-10-01T21:48:31.210+08:00Sis,good thing he did not do anything to you,I mea...Sis,good thing he did not do anything to you,I mean physically. It's really hard to have a workmate who is irresponsible. I just hope all things will work out fine. Take care sis! Miss yah! <3mtrguanlaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00023133400628530250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-12026975166069454022012-10-01T06:35:56.708+08:002012-10-01T06:35:56.708+08:00Thanks Hanny! That makes 3 of you, so I'll mo...Thanks Hanny! That makes 3 of you, so I'll modify the caption sa Liebster logo :-) I'll just visit your entry as well. <br /><br />It's true about anger...that is why it is a blessing that when I am extremely angry, usually, I don't speak...I walk away to let off steam first.Aileenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10039211474070790445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7383176194134206853.post-70840555249247957562012-09-29T23:18:31.281+08:002012-09-29T23:18:31.281+08:00I remember someone who told me that think first be...I remember someone who told me that think first before being mad. That way, you'll help yourself from bursting in anger. A word of anger once said can never be erased. Even I am trying to control myself even at the peak of my anger of saying nasty things that I'll regret after.<br /><br />I would chose to say something nice. One good thing I have to say about your blog is I really appreciate it that's why I've included you as one of my nominees in the Liebster Blog Award.Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00969507705763262461noreply@blogger.com